Difficult but honest question here. Because right now it seems like the second we have a disagreement with someone the kindness related to the shooting becomes a club to hit us over the head with.

It's a very low blow. This kind of thing is a business negotiation and those can sometimes be unpleasant. I don't believe ECU was in our corner on April 16 to place us in debt to them in totally unrelated matters forever. It was an incredible gesture....but in this case bringing that up has no other intention but to shut down discussion. It's underhanded.