yeah i gave her tokens when she cammed..not much money though..but hundreds of guys did..she talked to me when i tipped and she gave me her whatsapp..I dont know exactly how it transpired we just started talking on video using translation over the summer and we talked for months..she jokingly said visit her and one thing led to another..not sure how it really happened..she wants me to visit again at christmas hehe..i say im going to visit another but i dont know her very well..and im pretty sure the 2nd one is expecting $$ be spent on her so i doubt im going to do this. The 2nd girl kind of knows the 1st so she knows who i am and kind of picked me out of the crowd lol. The 2nd unfriended the 1st on facebook and then sent me a friend request lol.

So I most likely will visit the 1st girl..at Christmas. I will stay at her apartment the entire time probably..maybe a night or two in a hotel. And eventually she will most likely visit me..she needs a travel visa. No harm in this as long as I keep my brain in order..doesnt cost me anything more than a normal vacation..Colombia is super super cheap. Air flight round trip is the most expensive thing..and I can get it for a little over $600 to Medellin with 1 stop in Miami.
I know this sounds crazy and I am one of the last people you think would do this..but it really isn't crazy when you break it down. I give myself credit I planned the trip carefully, took many safeguards, she had to past many tests of mine for me to trust her before I would go..and the trip was better than I even thought it would be..had a blast.