So sorry, FS&M
About the only thing you can do is say you love the fiance and could see her marrying him (even if you don't and can't) but you wish they would wait a couple of years until education is finished. Then say the decision is up to her and you will support her decision. After that you just hope for the best. My in-laws REALLY did not want their daughter to marry her husband and made it known to all. They burned a bridge and she married him anyway. It's now 30 years later and they have had a really great and successful marriage with 3 great kids - and going strong. Once they were married, the in-laws decided to support them, but it was never forgotten and they never had a good relationship with SIL. It really affected everything.
I hope she waits, but if she doesn't, she may have a wonderful life with him. Good luck.
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Posted: 12/30/2018 at 3:51PM