If he's in his mid teens now is the time where you as a parent

Have to decide what liberty you will begin granting for making and accepting the consequences of decisions. I would counsel him some more on making sure he understands the long term implications for the prior stated goals and then lay out alternative options as well. Maybe thier are rec options that will allow for the social opportunities again for example. Its not a zero sum prop here
[Post edited by One4VT at 05/05/2021 1:04PM]

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Posted: 05/05/2021 at 1:03PM

Parents of high performing teen athletes, dealing with burnout... -- Burruss Writer 05/05/2021 12:32PM

I don't mean for this to come across as a pot shot at swimming... -- MP4VT2004 05/05/2021 10:33PM

One of my best friends won state in fly and freestyle...got -- Folly Beach Hokie 05/05/2021 2:45PM

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Been there twice -- Happy Dog 05/05/2021 2:04PM

This...This...and THIS!!! -- Burruss Writer 05/05/2021 2:29PM

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I owe you a beer... -- Burruss Writer 05/06/2021 12:34PM

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If he's in his mid teens now is the time where you as a parent -- One4VT 05/05/2021 1:03PM

I honored my son's decision to back off -- Hokie Fiji 05/05/2021 12:54PM

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Is that you, Melinda Gates??? ** -- dolph 05/05/2021 1:10PM

If he's in his mid teens now is the time where you as a parent

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